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Awkward moments lead to sticky situations
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Written by Stormy Kage, Editor-in-Chief
Most people have been in an uncomfortable or awkward moment. Their face may turn red, palms start to sweat, and for some, fidgeting may occur. The problem with an awkward moment is many tend to get caught up in the situation, making themselves vulnerable for embarrassment.
Knowing how to play it cool will not only relieve the gawky, embarrassing feeling, but it will help one learn how to get out of any sticky situation.
Everyone has probably said something out loud, not knowing it could be offensive to the people around. Sophomore Adriana Hackett said she was talking about a girl’s bad hairstyle and did not know the girl was standing right behind her.
“I laughed a little bit and just started walking away, really fast,” Hackett said.
According to realsimple.com, to recover from a verbal blunder it is important not to apologize because that would only seem insincere. If it is possible, immediately try to turn the insult into a joke or attempt to lighten the insult.
For example, after bad mouthing her hair, continue to talk but do not forget to mention how everyone, including yourself, may have a bad hair day every once in a while. Then, quickly change the subject.
In the future, according to realsimple.com, try not to gossip or bring up controversial topics in front of a large group of people. Stay away from politics, religious beliefs, and any uncertain philosophies. Use the best judgment or else it could end up back firing and being taken out of total context.
Another common sticky situation is being stuck in the middle of a dull conversation and not knowing how to politely exit. Senior Latosha Dennis said one time she was talking to a guy at a party but wanted to talk to someone else in the room.
“I was with my friend that time, so I gave her a look to signal to come get me,” Dennis said. “But if my friend was not there, I would have just walked away from the guy or started dancing with someone else.”
According to Letitia Baldrige, author of “Taste: Acquiring What Money Can’t Buy,” politeness requires seven to eight minutes of conversation. After that, make an exit. Let the person know there is an important phone call to make or excuse yourself for a drink.
Another tactic would be to introduce the boring talker to someone else nearby. This way, the person will not be left alone.
Often times, the intensity of the situation can be even more uncomfortable when there are many people around, such as at a party or a social gathering.
Freshman Ansley Paige said she remembered being at a pajama party and she was underdressed.
“I wore a tank top and underwear as shorts,” Paige said. “All the guys were looking at me and I felt awkward. I was ready to go home.”
According to realsimple.com, whenever going to an event make sure to bring an extra item of clothing like a jacket, vest, or blazer; especially if it is the first time attending the gathering. Also, it is just as important not to be overdressed.
Therefore dress in light layers. One could take a piece of clothing off and be dressed more appropriately.
On the other hand, some situations can become awkward even when no one else is around. Senior Tia Gillings said she accidently sent a text to the wrong person.
“I was talking bad about this guy. I meant to send the text to my friend, but I accidently sent it to the guy I was talking bad about,” Gillings said.
In order to recover, Gillings told the guy she meant to send it to another person who has the same name.
Sometimes it requires quick thinking to get out of an unwanted position. According to realsimple.com, as long as you never let them see you sweat, anyone can get out of a sticky situation.
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